In order to keep a divorce as positive as posible for your child here are a few guidelines that will be beneficial.
Accepting your ex's new partner. This person will also play a role in your child's future..happiness..and stability.
Making false accusations or judgments of: abuse, neglect, etc without a foundation. Legal action without a foundation.
Creating fear of rejection and witholding love if the child expresses positive feelings in relation to the absent parent.
Criticising absent parent in front or within hearing distance of your children.
Blaming the other parent for the break up in relation to the marriage.
Making it difficult for your child to see and have a regular with the other parent.
*** There are many exceptions to this rule. Of course: neglect, physical, emotional, mental, sexual, abuse is not ok and is reportable. Your child's sense of safety, security, stability are also vital.
David Abrams Mapc
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