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Angry Teenagers Arizona

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

Teens are at times taught that anger is bad. Anger is an emotion and can be used for good or for bad. Expressing anger in a health way without harming someone or self can be very positive. In fact it is unhealthy for teens to stuff their anger and act as if all is great when in fact they are very angry.

Anger that is not processed may likely ooze out in unhealthy ways: violence, verbal abuse, risky behaviors, attacking and judging others, Substance abuse, depression, anxiety and much more.

Healthy emotions and communication is dealing with ones feelings daily and not stuffing them down or avoiding them with: TV, internet, texting, cell, video games etc…this may be ok for a short time but eventually the anger will build and then there will be an expression of unhealthy anger because the avoidance becomes a habit and this will not work in the long run.

Take the time to help your child or teen cope with his or her anger sooner than later.

Angry teenager

Sunday, October 25th, 2009

There are many signs that your teen may have an anger issue here are a list of some
behaviors that indicate and anger problem for teenagers:

Frequent Physical fights at school, peers, and family.

Property damage: holes in walls , doors, breaking things etc.

Numb to feelings of others.

I do not care attitude.

Member of a violent group.

Use of drugs and alcohol

Cruelty to animals.

Fascination with weapons.

Been the victim or verbal or physical abuse.

There are many issues that can create anger and the good news is there are ways to manage anger and become healthy.

Angry Teen/Hostile Adolescents Phoenix, Tempe, Scottsdale AZ

Sunday, October 5th, 2008

Angry and hostile teenagers make the family  feel frustrated and helpless and in reality the teen feels helpless as well. Homes that provide guidance, structure, and responsibility are vital.

There is a clear difference in allowing a teenager to find his independence and to allow a teenager the freedom to do whatever he/she wants to do.
It is normal to experience anger and defiance when the parent/parents assert rules into the home.It will be easier to reintroduce rules if their is structure that is already in place in the home. It is important to be consistent as well as to schedule time to listen to your teens: thoughts, feelings, and hopes. If a teenager is not communicating with either parent this is a red flag and shows that communication needs to be worked on daily.