Teen suicide is the number three leading cause of death for adolescents after accidents and homicides.In N California four teens stepped in front of trains within a 6 month period which all resulted in suicide.
It is important to check in with your child or teen daily and find out how they are feeling daily. If you do not do this you leave the door open for a child or teens pain to ooze out in unhealthy ways: anger, drugs, alcohol, addiction, depression, anxiety, and more…The only way to do so is to ask and to listen. Parents should use empathy and attempt to understand their child or teens “issues’, challenges, pain, sadness,and anger.
There are many red flags for teen depression for parents to be aware of: child or teen displays hostility, withdraws into room, does not want to talk, isolates, feels hopeless, isolates, grades drop, low energy, sleeps to little, sleeps to much, decreased interest in activities, can not enjoy previously enjoyable activities, a change in eating habits, talks about running away from home, suicidal thoughts or talk, self destructive behavior, cutting self, physical complaints , physical illnesses, irritability, feeling rejected, feeling guilty,low self esteem and more. These are just a few signs that may indicate your child is depression or suffering from depression.
Counseling and psychotherapy with a professional that specializes in teen and adolescent counseling and family counseling is an important step to help your child or teen. Some parents prefer medication management only, however, most experts state counseling should go hand in hand with medication.